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ASK-VAL!

Created by Cool Val in Uncategorized Posts 4 Dec 2012
Val your blog is really growing fast, keep it up, but i have a question i want to ask our friends, so post this without my username please....

I'm in my 200level in Lasu and i have a girlfriend who is also in the same level with me, and we started dating last year, but till now we haven't had sex, because she doesn't agree, and i don't even know whether she is a virgin or not, because she always gets angry if i ask her about it, please does it mean that she dosent like me, or does it mean that she may be doing it else where?? How do i go about it??ou

Comments (13)

Ijebaby Ijebaby Student
4 Dec 2012 | 11:05

Relationship is not only about sex and sometimes we overrate it for nothing.



What I don't get is why she cannot be honest with you about herself. After a year I am sure she must have grown to trust you with whatever the issue is. Her getting angry when you bring it up is not the way to act cos that will only breed contempt.



If you cannot go on with the relationship without sex stop deceiving yourself and let her go. You might only end up cheating on her which will lead to a messy break-up.



If you can go on without sex then do but she should be able to give you her reasons. It might be a bad experience she wants to forget or she doesn't love you and is all about what she's getting from you.
You can only find out by talking even if it ends in a fight at least you tried.

Dammey Dammey Student
4 Dec 2012 | 13:38

They av said it all.

Petokey Petokey Student
5 Dec 2012 | 00:17

Ijebabe on point

kentochi kentochi Student
5 Dec 2012 | 01:33

@tutusaint relationship is not all about sex trust me it reduces love

kentochi kentochi Student
5 Dec 2012 | 01:36

@blackberrydudu н̲̣̣̣̥
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do one ask for s*x nicely

kentochi kentochi Student
5 Dec 2012 | 01:40

@brilly ¶ love that

kentochi kentochi Student
5 Dec 2012 | 01:43

So all this buhahaha is just cos of sex well my bro if she no fit give you find it outside to save the relationship cos it seems she is stingy wit her punny

kentochi kentochi Student
5 Dec 2012 | 01:50

@ijebabe ¶ kind of support the points u made but ¶ believe these days gals sleep wit a guy if they are getting something out of the relationship and to be able to maintain it nd not for love..so for her to refuse him her honeypot either means she is not gaining anything or she is bidding her time or she is really in love wit him or like u said she must have had a bad experience wit it before

kentochi kentochi Student
5 Dec 2012 | 01:56

@topic first of all as we already know relationship is not all about sex cos it tends to reduce love if there is any..secondly ¶ think what he should do is to sit her down and have a heart to heart discussion wit her make her to trust you to always be there for her and to know that no matter her past experience is, no matter н̲̣̣̣̥
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bad that she can over come it, tell her that u are willing and ready to wait for her no matter н̲̣̣̣̥
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long it takes ( oboy say this if u are getting it outside, if not conji go destroy your face) and finally open a healthy communication line wit her and always make her feel wanted and ¶ think wit time she will give in to you without u asking

Dammey Dammey Student
7 Dec 2012 | 03:18

Izukwu alot of people loves sexless relationship.

Dammey Dammey Student
7 Dec 2012 | 03:20

Atleast i do,i prefer d sexless 1 dan d sexfilled 1.

Dammey Dammey Student
7 Dec 2012 | 03:24

Guy i will tell u 2 try and ask her y she don't want sex,mayb she has a very cogent reason,but if she can't open up 2 u. Let her knw exactly how u feel,if she can't trust u enuf 4 her 2 tell u wats happening,i dnt think she deserves u.

Sugar Boy Student
4 Jan 2022 | 16:43

Back in my sec sch days, my propriator's daughter did the same thing with me. I start dating her when i was in my SS2 and she was a 200level student @ BSU MAKURDI. it wasn't easy trying to find my way in btw her legs, finally it worth it

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