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    That quickened heartbeat every time you see them or they pass by. The new sparkle in your eye. The extra time you’re taking on your makeup in the morning. Girl, you’re showing all of the signs: You’ve got a crush. And crushes are awesome and fun and exciting except when you’re already in a committed relationship.

    We’ve all been there: that moment where we realize that we’ve got the feels for a new guy or girl and it feels so inevitable and right and exciting but it’s totally not something we can act on because, well, we’re committed to someone else maybe married.

    So how best do you get over this crush when you’re in a relationship? You don’t want to hurt the one you love but you’re jonesing hard for this new person. Here are a few straight to the point guides that can help.

    1. Remember its just a crush and nothing more. Don’t overthink it, and don’t obsess over It. Keeping a secret also hurts the process of getting over it, as it turns it into something “special.” Tell your friends and, if you have that kind of relationship, tell your significant other! Sometimes just getting it out in the open can dispel the air of mystery that helps make a crush so overwhelming. It losses its power once it’s out there.

    2. Keep in mind that crushes pass or die with time. Don’t dwell on it too much and it will pass. If you do nothing else, resist the urge to confess your feelings to the crush in question. Even if they seem like they know, let them maintain some level of plausible deniability.

    3. work that crush into your relationship. You know all of that sexual energy you feel around your crush? That rapid heartbeat, that tingling? Take that energy and funnel it back into your partner.

    4. Focus on improving with your partner. The longer you’ve stayed with someone the more likely it is that some aspect of the relationship has gotten stale. It might be your quality time together, it might be your conversations. Figure out what it is that’s lacking and really focus on making it better.

    Don’t let a crush ruin your relationship. The earlier you deal with it the better!

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    Daniel Edem
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    Hmmm thank’s

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    Daniel Edem
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    I will know how to deal with dem now”
    Cause am sick for them.

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    Itzprince
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    Okay o

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    Jehliohn
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    cant remember the last time i had a crush

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    Jehliohn
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    thanks for the info

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    kingsabinto
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    Thanks

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    sheegokeys
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    This is very useful

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